I was asked an interesting question recently.  This question made me stop and reflect...

Who is it I'm not allowed to be?

So, I went back through time and tracked who I was not allowed to be...

• a veterinarian,
• an artist,
• a writer,
• a farmer,
• a Reiki Master,
• an alternative healing practitioner,
• a business owner

 
Why aren't I allowed to be this person?

Looking back through my history, it’s because the tribe I’ve been listening to says it’s impossible. They tell me, “That’s not how things are done around here.” These voices, often well-meaning, try to keep me safe within the bounds of what’s familiar to them. They’ve built walls around their beliefs; anything outside those walls feels threatening or unachievable.

It's taken me years to realize that this "tribe" isn’t necessarily my tribe. They reflect their fears, limitations, and doubts—but those aren’t mine. The truth is that every great idea or shift begins with someone brave enough to step outside the norm. Every veterinarian, artist, writer, farmer, Reiki Master, alternative healer, and business owner was once told, “You can’t do that.”

The question is: whose voices am I going to believe? The ones that tell me to stay small, or the one inside me urging me to grow?
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Listening to the wrong tribe keeps us trapped in their story, not ours. But when we choose to listen to our inner wisdom, we reclaim the power to write our own script—to be who we’re truly meant to be, even if it hasn’t been done before.

Learning to listen to your inner wisdom is a practice, a journey of reconnecting with your heart and reclaiming your power. If you’re ready to step into the person you’re truly meant to be, I’d love to help you take the next step.

You can start by experiencing the transformative power of a Shamanic Reiki 1-on-1 Sound Bath, where you’ll release old patterns and tune into the wisdom of your heart in a deeply restorative session.

Or, if you’re ready to dive deeper, join the Harmonizing Energies:  Shamanic Reiki 1 Workshop and learn tools to align your energy, connect with your inner voice, and begin rewriting your story.

Take this as your sign...
it’s time to listen to the right tribe: your own.

The Message:  Nothing makes my heart sing louder than hanging out with my tribe.  One example is when a few tribe members went to a Winefest event.  I should have known it would be a day of fun, laughter, and authentic conversations when I randomly took a small notebook with me. The notebook came in handy as I wrote down some random quotes that were said by the tribe during the Winefest:

• Play big or go home, girlfriend!
• Looks like you are rounding up a herd of cats!
• Suck it up, buttercup!
• If you have time to cry, you have time to try!

OMG....after spending a day walking around, sipping wine, shopping, eating, talking, and hanging with the tribe, I felt inspired and rejuvenated.  What my tribe looks like:
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• Accepts me as me are (even my flaws),
• Believes in my dreams (no matter how crazy they sound),
• Helps me in a crisis (no questions asked),
• Calls the bullshit card (if needed), 
• Are compassionate, authentic, and genuine,
• And, inspire me with ideas.

Life is full of twists and turns, but within each moment lies the potential for something extraordinary—if only we remain open to it. Being open to possibilities doesn’t mean abandoning our plans or goals; rather, it invites us to loosen our grip on how things "should" unfold and trust the magic of what could be.

When we let go of rigid expectations, we create space for serendipity to enter. A chance meeting, an unexpected opportunity, or a shift in perspective can lead us down paths we never imagined. These are the moments where life feels expansive, filled with the thrill of new discoveries and the joy of uncovering hidden potential.

The key to embracing possibilities lies in shifting our mindset:

• Cultivate Curiosity: Ask "What if?" instead of assuming limits. Approach life with a sense of wonder and exploration.
• Release Resistance: Let go of the fear of the unknown. Growth often happens outside our comfort zone.
• Listen to Your Intuition: Sometimes, possibilities don’t come from logic but from a feeling in your heart nudging you forward.

When we open ourselves to possibilities, we become co-creators of our reality. Life isn’t about predicting the future but about dancing with it—adapting, learning, and growing as we go.

So, as you step into today, ask yourself:

Thanks, everyone, for the kind support and feedback on my upcoming book release.  The book is going through the final editing process.  Once the final editing is complete, I can provide a release date.  In the meantime, enjoy an excerpt from my upcoming book: 

MOXIE:  The Trailblazing 20-Minute Daily Practice to Embrace Your Power, Forge Your Path, and Live with Clarity, Confidence, and Courage.
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Potholes—those small, persistent disruptions in our daily lives—can feel like nuisances. They show up as running late for an appointment, dealing with a difficult colleague, or facing tech glitches that derail your schedule. While they may not stop you entirely, they slow you down and test your patience.


At first, these moments may seem irritating and unnecessary. But they also offer an opportunity for mindfulness and growth. How do you respond when life doesn’t go perfectly? Do you allow small frustrations to snowball into bigger issues, or do you pause, breathe, and adjust your mindset?


Here’s the truth: you are the chooser in your life. You get to decide how to react—and, sometimes, whether to react at all. Protecting your inner peace is your foundation, and it’s non-negotiable. When you prioritize it, decisions become clearer, and life feels more aligned.


This is your gentle reminder: the power to maintain your inner peace, even amidst life’s potholes, is already within you. Pause, breathe, and choose wisely—you’ve got this.


Strategy for Potholes:  
Shift your perspective. Instead of seeing these moments as annoyances, view them as chances to practice flexibility and gratitude. For example, being stuck in traffic could become an opportunity to listen to a podcast or practice the mindfulness practice of breathing. By reframing these minor setbacks, you reclaim control over your mood and your day.  To reframe navigating daily irritations, consider these questions:

• What emotion appears when you are irritated?
• How do you react?  Do you implode and blame yourself?  Do you explode with blame others?
• What is the story you are telling yourself?  Is there an opportunity to rewrite this story?
• Why are you giving your power away to this minor irritation and letting it ruin your day?
• What boundaries do you need to set that prioritize your needs?

The Message:  Maybe you’re feeling stuck, bored, or frustrated. It’s not that you dislike your life—it’s just that deep down, you sense there’s something more. More meaning. More excitement. New connections, adventures, and possibilities waiting to unfold.

Here’s the truth: those possibilities are always within your reach. Sure, you might not quit your job overnight or master a new skill in an instant, but every single day holds countless opportunities, shaped by the choices you make.

Sometimes those choices feel small, almost insignificant. Why not stick with what’s familiar? Why not stay in your comfort zone—it’s called that for a reason, after all.

But what if, instead, you chose possibility? What if one small change—one tiny shift in how you think or act—could set the stage for something extraordinary? Even the smallest adjustments can open doors you never knew were there.

The first step? Start here.

Do you have space in your calendar for new possibilities?
Does your living space have space for new possibilities?
What are your curiosities and obsessions these days?
Can you have fun creating more space in your life and see where it leads you?

With the new year, I've decided to take a fresh approach to Mondays. Historically, Mondays have arrived with their fair share of stress and anxiety, serving as a stark reminder of weekly responsibilities and never-ending to-do lists. But Mondays don’t have to carry the weight of dread. In fact, they can become something we look forward to...

An opportunity to invite in magic and possibilities!

Below is a list of my favorite ways to add a little magic to my Mondays: 

• Set an intention for the week - think of Mondays as a fresh start filled with possibilities.
• Wear an outfit that feels empowering.
• Indulge in self-care - take a yoga class, schedule a massage, or take a hot bath.
• Create a Monday morning playlist.
• Plan a fun activity - a lunch date with a friend or a creative art date with yourself. 

What ideas do you have for adding a little magic to Mondays?


Let’s transform your Mondays from mundane to magnificent!

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