The Art of Going With The Flow

​I used to believe that if I planned enough, worked hard enough, and controlled all the moving parts, things would go exactly as I envisioned. But life has a way of laughing at our best-laid plans.

There was a time when I resisted change, gripping tightly to what should happen. I told myself that if I just pushed a little harder, I could force things into place. But the more I resisted, the more stuck I felt. It was like swimming against the current—exhausting, frustrating, and ultimately, ineffective.

Then, one day, I let go. Not out of defeat, but out of sheer exhaustion. And to my surprise, as soon as I stopped fighting, something magical happened: things started falling into place in ways I couldn’t have predicted.

That’s when I learned an important truth: life unfolds on its own timeline, not ours.

Why We Resist (And How to Release It):

Resistance often comes from fear—the fear of uncertainty, of losing control, of stepping into the unknown. But what if, instead of fighting against what is, we allowed ourselves to soften into it?

Going with the flow isn’t about passivity; it’s about trust. It’s about recognizing that when we stop gripping so tightly, we open ourselves to new possibilities.

Here’s how you can practice trusting the unfolding:

• Pause and Observe – Where in your life are you resisting? Is it a situation, a relationship, or a decision? Simply noticing it can create space for a shift.
• Breathe into Surrender – When you feel resistance creeping in, take a deep breath and ask yourself, What happens if I loosen my grip?
• Reframe the Unknown – Instead of seeing uncertainty as something to fear, what if it’s where the magic happens?
• Trust the Timing – The universe often has better plans than we do. What if things are unfolding exactly as they need to?

 
Embracing the Flow

What if, instead of forcing the outcome, you allowed yourself to trust the unfolding?

What if you believed that life is guiding you to something even better than you imagined?
Today, I invite you to release one thing you’ve been resisting and see what shifts. Maybe—just maybe—there’s a current ready to carry you exactly where you need to be.

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Go With The Flow - Embrace Your Inner Power Oracle Deck

Flexibility. Flow. Divine Time.

The Message:  I always know when I’m not going with the flow in my life. I feel like my life, my projects, and my dreams have stalled, and I start comparing myself to others. 

• Why aren’t I as successful as…
• Why aren’t I making as much money as…
• Why aren’t I….

I often find myself becoming impatient and seeking external sources for answers, which often leads me to make poor decisions. I begin chasing after quick solutions and spend money on classes and workshops from so-called experts who fail to deliver the expected results, leading to even more frustration. I feel like…


I’m running out of time!


When I find myself saying this, I realize that I’m restricting the flow of energy into my life. I stop, take a deep breath, relax, and accept that there is my time and then there is divine time. I need to get out of my way and let things unfold vs. forcing my agenda.


Reflection Questions:

• Do you feel like time is running out?
• Are you set on how the result should look or how it should be completed?
• What if you took a different approach? 
• What if you took a simpler approach?
• What if you let time inspire you?